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Do you talk to strangers?

I was in the garden yesterday and this elderly lady - over 80?, stopped and said hello and we talked for a while, then she asked me what my flat number was. I told her and she said she will call in one day and have a chat.
Okay said I, she was repeating herself and seemed a little forgetful.
If she does turn up, I will invite her in for a chat.
Best get some tea.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
My wife has got into the habit of talking to strangers when we shop. Greeting people like a long lost friend. Its her dementia progressing. But mostly they are nice back and it is something that gives her some pleasure and contact..Its all good..😷
Gusman · 61-69, M
@whowasthatmaskedman It is nice when people make allowances and respond in kind.
All many people want is to be listened to. 🙂
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@Gusman Yes. The cafe staff know her in our favoutire places and I have them primed with a regular order so we get what we want. Not what she might order. And she gets to feel in control. Scottish Independence is a big deal still. By the time it arrives she has forgotten what was ordered anyway..😷
Stephie · 22-25, F
I do talk to strangers but I am very cautious whom I converse with.

To be quite honest, I prefer elderly people because I know that they have no interest in trying to pick up a younger woman and their topics of conversation are more varied.

What I love to chat about is their life experience. It is a fascinating look into the past that I have not experienced and will never know.

Also, elderly people seem to seek the contact because I have the feeling that a lot of them are lonely.
Gusman · 61-69, M
@Stephie So true. I love talking to elderly people. They have so much life experience and knowledge and are willing to part with it, if one is prepared to listen.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
At bus stops, walking and restaurants mostly.

Ages vary.
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
Post WW2 boomers grew up learning to be polite to strangers and elderly people, and it wasn't unusual to chat with a stranger. I and my siblings were taught to greet or acknowledge adults we met in the street, whether we knew them or not. Even today I acknowledge people in the street unless they pointedly avoid eye contact.
Aww hopefully she is not getting Alzheimers 🙁 old people get lonely sometimes.. 🙁
Gusman · 61-69, M
@SStarfish She did seem to be okay. Spoke well, no ums or ahs.
@Gusman it's not always like that.. but perhaps she was just being friendly..
Sylphrena · 31-35
I try to. It helps my social skills and anxiety.
Gusman · 61-69, M
@Sylphrena Not the easiest thing to do. Especially if prone to bring anxious.
The more you do it, the more you believe in yourself.
Sam17 · 18-21, M
Always good to say hello as the person might be having a difficult time and a hello could help them
Gusman · 61-69, M
@Sam17 Yes, the simple act of saying hello could raise their spirits and lift them out of the funk they might be in.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Only when necessary.

Such as asking for directions / info etc.

I am more comfortable when people ask me.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
She probably wants to hear some funny jokes. Do you know any?
Gusman · 61-69, M
@hunkalove
There's a Blonde standing on one side of the River,
and another Blonde standing on the other side of the River,
and the first Blonde shouts out,
"Hey, How do I get to the other side"?
and the other Blonde shouts back,
"You are on the other side"
No
They talk to me for some reason
Lilymoon · F
Yeah sometimes

 
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