A vital message to men.

Especially, the ones who say that they are tired of how a lot of women are acting these days.

As a man, you do not have any other option but to be with a woman. Homosexualities or other things aren't sustainable. Someone gave a good example. If there is only men and other genders except women in a remote island, in the probable future, there is no offspring and everyone dies. On the other hand, if there is men and women, in the probable future, there are newborns and the society grows.

However women are these days, it is what it is. The best you can do as a man, is to do your best. Surely a lot of things are unacceptable and we know too much isn't good, so keep that in mind too. Remember, you too make mistakes.

I hope this helps someone.

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elafina · 36-40, F

I can understand, maybe, where your feelings to speak up for men come from, trying to find yourself and your manhood, where do you stand... Like we all do. And yes, there is a lot of hate coming from women towards men in our era. Suppression does that, suppression that did go on for millennia.
So we are now trying to change things and find some balance. Get your head clear and see that. Not advocate for people who get scared of the unsettlements, required for bringing upon balance, a sign of redestribution of recourses. Don't be scared.
We as women do not wish to push you men aside. But there's anger because we were silenced, imprisoned to narrow roles and what have always men been doing is, to tell women how they should be, what to say, how to go about this or that. This world belong to all.

Let go of your fear as men, that lead you to controlling behaviours. Try to ease yourselves. And in the end, try to listen a little more and a little further.
I appreciate you, your presence around, so I bother to reply with all of this.

Blanchy · 31-35, F

@elafina Well said. 💕

elafina · 36-40, F

@Blanchy I understand deeper and deeper.
There is some hatred within me about men after all that I didn't know was there, but now I see. Resentment.
How I go about it, I am turning within.
Trying to own my life and mind, working on clearing my wounds and acknowledging. I'm sorry for how things turned out to be.
But we are here and we can do the best to create a safe environment to love one another...

Blanchy · 31-35, F

@elafina This makes sense as how you're able to then empathize and understand what men like OP are going through to some extend. I think it's important to meet people with kindness if we have a message to share, and want them to listen, but most people (myself included) just can't understand where OP is coming from. I think it must take a lot of strenght to deal with these kinds of emotions and possible trauma, and I'm happy for you that you're working with yourself in ways which ultimately makes you a happy person, because our happiness is in the end all that really matters in this short life. 🌻