@Flenflyys thank you for saying something...the men have taken over the thread. i was wondering if any women were out there

@LILY61 the “not all men” argument is so stupid. It’s enough men that we have to be mindful of our safety when turning down an advance. That should be concerning to anyone. I’ve been shoved, sworn at etc for refusing. A friend of mine was approach by a stranger and when she turned him down he started punching her in the head.

@Flenflyys i stay mostly alone and converse with my husband, neighbors and store clerks....that is my life

i was brutalized by sadistic parents. used by men who thought i was good arm candy. lied about at school and work all in the name of love. All the girls i thought i was friends with were jealous of me (which usually means they are attracted to you)...so they lied their asses off about me....

then i would turn down this dude or that guy and he would rape me. or beat me or try to run me over with a car etc...and then lie about me....i have been kidnapped, raped, slandered. beaten, molested, destroyed financially, professionally and educationally. And i have never done a single thing to anyone...and i was never that attractive!

I was told by a head nurse at a hospital in Cincinnati that my pheromones must be really high, because she wanted to punch my face in and she always felt like she was never jealous of anyone. She said the nurses were talking about me in a very catty manner so she had to see for herself. i have had this same diagnosis from other professionals. Weird...

So, yes, my experiences with men have been horrible but most of the women i have spoken to in my life have atleast one horror story...so...

@calicuz Ask Aileen Wournos..wait,we can't

@bookerdana she got a raw deal. she was a prostitute in danger everyday and from what they found, the only guys she killed were monsters who tried to kill her first

@Queendragonfly i completely agree. what kinda goober asks a woman to marry her in front of other people? or on a boat or bridge or amusement ride?

@smiler2012 like i said to another here...it was just to get some of you to respond to something that is sort of true but not for all of you. i was hoping for stories.

@Tminus6453 too late

@BizSuitStacy that actually happened to me

@LILY61 you gotta be kidding???

@LILY61 I just read the article. The was man was Turkish and foolish.

@littlepuppywantanewlife He was Toolkish

@LILY61 😂

@aboveaverage men are so stupid when they get peckish

@Sojournersoul and we thank you

@LILY61 Just because you may have had issues with a man or even some men doesn't give you the right to label all men in the same way and doing so suggests a very high level of immaturity. Having said that, I am sure you are a very nice person, albeit a little misguided.

@PhlipipUK i am the nicest person that ever lived. i don't hate all men. just most of the ones that i have known. i wanted to hear stories from both sides...nope. just like the men in my life, you go for the attack...his response WAS purely male...when do you ever hear of a woman doing that? And you men aren't even a little embarrassed for being men by one of your own doing such a humiliating violent act?

I always feel embarrassed for being a woman when some stupid woman is caught doing some completely female but antiquated move on some poor guy.

And why is it when one makes a comment to get a rise outta people some one has to mention Maturity levels?

And women have been labeled by ALL men since the dawn of time. I have all the right in the world. Just for having breasts.

@LILY61 Oh, ok 🙄

@LILY61 His behavior was completely out of line and no means no. You'd think people would get that. Besides the obvious tragic result, he makes us guys look like a bunch of Neanderthals.

@uncalled4 Thank you for you honest response. when women read this we automatically go back to the last time some guy turned into an ape on us and got violent. most of the men got their backs up because of what i said here on this thread

@LILY61 Bad behavior is bad behavior. No one should be hitting on anyone. They should be held accountable for that.

@Jenny1234 yeah, i know. but i hung on for awhile. i knew it wasn't going to last. but i was on vacation.....it turned out he was sleeping with my fat sister and she had paid him to pretend to be in love with me and then break up with me horrendously.

@LILY61 that’s horrible on so many levels

@Jenny1234 we were together for 6 months

@SW-User i am...and it was just to get a rise out of you sleeping peeper keepers

@LILY61 very well 😋

@req89hikowquou what red flags? he asked her to go hiking up a trail to a secluded romantic setting?

@nedkelly 😆throwing mrs smiler off the edge of a cliff ned now there i could happily sympathise lol

@nedkelly i have been married for decades...it seems like 100 years...or decades

@Punches it was on CNN and my local news. and i originally found it on the internet @ CNN...which is where i copied then posted this article.

@acpguy maybe she did it because when she said no to him once he tried to push her off a cliff

@acpguy 🤣

@Fluffybull but so true

@LILY61 You're a bitter person 🙄

@nedkelly
But no means yes, so maybe she confused him if his question was too deep?

@swirlie maybe she laughed at him...in that case, she was asking for it

@LILY61
I agree! Laughing also means yes where I come from!