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BAD HABITS THAT MAKE YOU LESS ATTRACTIVE
There are several bad habits that can make you less attractive to others. Here are a few:

Poor hygiene: Neglecting personal hygiene, such as not showering regularly or brushing your teeth, can be a major turn-off for others.

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MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
Smoking meth
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@AthrillatheHunt she said bad habits, and y s I would think that smoking household chemicals would be a red flag
SW-User
@MyNameIsHurl I nominate this for BC
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Luckylu · 61-69, F
Everyone has their own set of standards and what constitutes a bad habit, while others might not find them so.

For me, it is heavy use of cologne or perfume and/or makeup and/or hair products. Another is what words come out of their mouth, are they supportive or always talking badly about other people, or always being condescending or doing things to try and manipulate a person. Some people do this out of habit and don’t fully comprehend what they are doing. Others do it on purpose. In either case, I cannot be around such people.

Use of recreational drugs/alcohol, why they use it, what it does to them, what extent they use them, all are factors to consider and can be unattractive if misused.

Smoking is a turnoff for me unless a person is able to do so without the cigarette smoke permeating their clothing and body. I met only one man who could do that. To this day I don’t know how he did it.

Personal hygiene can be, but very much depends on how my senses respond. A sweaty man after a hard work or a workout, is a turn on, while a man who hasn’t bathed in days can be a huge turnoff.

So there are many factors that can decide whether something can be considered bad or not. For instance, if I say I find sweaty men to be a turnoff, but really mean I dislike a man who doesn’t shower daily, it can be quite misleading and possibly cause a person to pass you by and miss out on a possibly good friendship or more.
TexChik · F
For men or women? Things I find unattractive of either sex are smoking, obesity, rampant use of profanity, illicit drug use, lack of intelligence, lack of hygiene or grooming, being poorly dressed, being grossly unfit, and addictions.
ElleryQueen · 61-69, M
@TexChik No argument here.
PatKirby · M
Well I figure the basics include showering, shaving, brushing and flossing teeth daily. Trimming beard and mustache at least once weekly. Sometimes twice depending. However, never underestimate the power of perspiration on human attraction. Napoléon Bonaparte famously sent his wife Josephine the following message from the battlefront: “Je reviens en trois jours; ne te laves pas!” - “I will return in three days. Don’t wash!”

And he did not mean the laundry.
For many, smoking. Unfortunately I do enjoy a fine cigar, it can give my better half a migraine. She is an international flight attendant so is gone for weeks at a time (last trip over 20 days) so typically not an issue, but when home make sure to let facial hair grow out a bit, nice shower and shave and brush teeth and "bleach" my mouth and face before we are together. I realize eventually I will have to quit this "bad habit" but for now it kinda works (and work around) for us.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Incessantly talking about a topic another person is not interested in.
SW-User
Cheap clothes
Not combing hair
Thick lens glasses
Posture
OctoberEyes · 26-30, M
Eating with your mouth open.

C’mon man, zip it up!
Slade · 56-60, M
@OctoberEyes Hell Yeah!
LandOfOz · 61-69, M
Not washing the genitals properly every day
SW-User
Being jealous of your fellow sister wives ..
deadgerbil · 26-30
Gluttony lol
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@deadgerbil I eat like a hog
deadgerbil · 26-30
@SkeetSkeet I'll be the judge of that
People who make annoying SW posts
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Emotional neediness
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Obesity

Women that don’t shave legs and armpits

Speaking with your mouth full
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
Are there people in the world unaware of this?
Pretzel · 61-69, M
being undependable - you say you'll call - you call
Unless the other person is into that.
RedBaron · M
Why? I’m married and off the market.
Theres one in particular
SW-User
Interrupting
SW-User
Nose picking 😒🤢
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Dudes with long nails and foot fungus
deadgerbil · 26-30
@SkeetSkeet you don't like my feet then huh
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@deadgerbil they pass inspection,,,
deadgerbil · 26-30
@SkeetSkeet I'm honored
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
eating at McDonald's like it's going outta style
SW-User
Serial murder. It's a very unpleasant habit altogether
Elessar · 26-30, M
@SW-User All those bags in the yard, or spending hours looking at big ass fridges when you're at the mall.. never again
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