Masculinity without femininity (vulnerability) is definitely unhealthy and leads to men compensating their neglected emotions.
They do it by hating women, competing over women with other men (jealousy/bets on sex with a girl etc) and some goes as far as harassing, raping, or any other way abusing or even murdering women to compensate for what they emotionally lack.
I'd say we don't need more masculinity we need more feminine energy in masculine men.
Example on feminity in masculine men:
- They can talk out their real feelings with their male friends and value deep friendships
- They can say No against peer pressure and stand up for themselves
- They care about self development more than "How big was her boobs?" or "How many girls have you slept with?"
- They follow their dreams and passions despite any outer opinions. "You wanna be a piano teacher? But we want you to be a doctor!"
- They are brave and authentic and dates women who support healthy gender roles. A man should cry just like a woman should cry when sad and so on.
