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Kodel · 26-30, M
Honestly I find myself agreeing with you quite a bit there. It's no longer about finding someone with as complimentary a personality to yours as possible. It's about finding someone with as much resourceful benefaction as possible for us. To be fair, not everyone is like that, but it's definitely seen a massive rise over even the last 20 years or so. It feels like dating/relationships are more like job interviews now; where we have to meet a certain criteria of requirements before we're even considered for the position, rather than being completely taken by someone's unique perception, ambition, creativity, insightfulness, caring nature and their ability to make you laugh. It feels like those things pale in comparison to resource based compensation these days.