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How do you feel if a partner is jealous?

I know it annoys some people, but others enjoy their partner being jealous.
TexChik · F
My husband is never jealous because I never do anything to make him feel that way.
exexec · 61-69, C
My partner was never jealous, but I was very jealous when she dated others in college. I think she liked for me to be jealous up to a point. When she saw how much emotional pain I was in, her feelings changed and she did all she could to help me stop being jealous.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@exexec I think some like their partner to be jealous just to tease a bit, but it’s good to have boundaries
exexec · 61-69, C
@DHggmu She knew I was afraid of losing her, so she did her best to reassure me.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@exexec As long as the people in the relationship understand eachother then you can experiment with your limits, that’s a healthy relationship.
Henal · 26-30, F
I guess a little jealously is fine, but there is a limit. If their behaviour turns possessive and controlling, then we have a problem.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@Henal Completely agree, there’s a fine line between jealous and controlling/possessive
Freeranger · M
@Henal Well stated
FoolishLuna · 56-60, F
My husband is very territorial. He reminds me daily that ‘ you are all MINE’.

Jealous is a sign of insecurity.
SW-User
@FoolishLuna That is just weird! Who ever tells someone that? He must be a very insecure man.
Sweetpoison · 36-40, F
I don’t mind it, as long as it isn’t about being possessive, i think jealousy is sweet
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@Sweetpoison yeah it’s very important to separate the too, possessive and controlling are a big no.
SW-User
I think it would annoy me or even worry me if it was constant in a relationship. I’m quite used to it mind you as some of my friends and coworkers have been very territorial over me. Often I find it funny and entertaining, even though I shouldn’t.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
It makes me feel gross, like he thinks I'm his possession and that my wants/needs/desires and my things don't matter as much as his.
Funlov · M
It would drive me nuts I’d probably just end it can live like that
akindheart · 61-69, F
Jealousy is a sign of trust. or lack thereof.
SW-User
He's very jealous
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
it can get annoying 😬
caesar7 · 61-69, M
I hate it. Too controlling.
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DHggmu · 31-35, M
@SW-User Yeah when I’ve had partners that were jealous or I was, we would playfully tease eachother about it. As long as you know the limits.
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DHggmu · 31-35, M
@SW-User exactly, some people don’t understand that, but I’d rather that than be insecure, one or the other is likely to get some form of attention at some point so it’s surely healthy to accept that.

 
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