Yes. I know I miss a lot of great opportunities to know someone deeply because they don’t think they’re attractive enough to , I suppose, match my attractiveness? But that is unattractive in itself because I want to be seen for who I am. If he can’t see more then it makes me feel undesirable either way.
The most physically attractive woman I know often complained about how difficult it was to meet a nice guy. Only the over confident, who were full of themselves and full of themselves ever had the nerve to approach her.
