Have you ever had to stop yourself from telling others how lucky they are to have what they have?

I usually will try and interject that observation in my encouragement, if they're open to that at that time. Sometimes people just want to be heard and spew the issues out, and then I'll just listen. Eventually at another time, I will remind them of their fortunate reality.

Ya. I had a girlfriend millionaire she lived in a multimillion apartment in the heart of Manhattan.... and COMPLAINED, I didn’t say anything but was shocked to hear that

oh yes. but the at the same time, i feel like i'd understand why they would hate me for saying that bc ive had ppl said that to me many times, and they just assumed that im not being grateful w my life when they dont know the whole story behind it

But they aren't happy about something else so I'd feel patronizing if I told them that, ofc I can tell them certain things I admire but not as being lucky, sounds inappropriate

Yes, there have been times. What stops me, is remembering how it felt when someone has said something like that to me when I was worried, stressed about something, or grieving.

I will hold my tongue unless the person is so oblivious 2wat he or she has then just straight up tell them

It is cuntty to do so but I have thought about it when it comes to my spoiled sister

I always say what I think and feel.
Even when I probably shouldn't.

I may be a little diferent. I come from a multigenerational and successful business family. I never, ever wanted material things. Yeah, I have had pretty much, everything. I never really enjoyed anything, I had.

I do love the simple things in life. It used to perplex friends, in my life.

They just, never understood.

Isn't that the time to say to yourself, you also, don't live their lives?

No because the people that have everything are always bragging about it.

i'm not saying that people who are well off don't have problems or that they don't have a right to be upset but it's just that it feels like there are bigger problems or it could be a whole lot worse or just simply they already have the means to fix/cope with it that someone else with the same problem won't.

Thank you for BC.

No, because that would be like saying their feelings are wrong. They don't have to want something just because other people do. It's unfortunate that they're the ones who got it, it's not lucky for them. But life is not fair.

I tend to avoid telling people the full details of my life because I don't want people to tell me how lucky I have it. I know how lucky I have it, even if things aren't how I want them to be.

No. I would never do or think of that.