Why is loyalty so underrated?

Like I had a guy ask me today that he fell in love with his co-worker as he's married.

Then he claims that he wouldn't cheat on her? WTF? I told him to leave his wife then do whatever he pleased to do so.

But why is loyalty so hard? I was loyal and I got cheated on twice and one of my exes tried to cheat on her husband with me. I don't get it.

Is it that hard to be loyal?

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

Might be asking yourself the wrong question. I think the real question is, “why are people so selfish? “Or “why are people so cowardice (avoiding)?”. Cheating always seems to come down to those why was he personality traits. When I steer clear of selfish and or avoidant people, I noticed that disloyalty becomes less of an issue because it’s not their nature to rationalize screwing people over.