Why is loyalty so underrated?

Like I had a guy ask me today that he fell in love with his co-worker as he's married.

Then he claims that he wouldn't cheat on her? WTF? I told him to leave his wife then do whatever he pleased to do so.

But why is loyalty so hard? I was loyal and I got cheated on twice and one of my exes tried to cheat on her husband with me. I don't get it.

Is it that hard to be loyal?

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bijouxbroussard · F

It shouldn’t be. But apparently it’s more than some people can manage. Not everyone, though.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@bijouxbroussard I agree.

It's not everyone's cup of tea. But one can be honest. Not being loyal is okay. You can call it quits and be the bigger person.

I'm actually high as we speak because I was loyal to end up with someone who cheated on me multiple times. It hurts. I wouldn't do that to someone. Watching my mother deal with a disloyal person, it broke my heart.

I chose to be alone than cheat. I can't. It hurts and I couldn't sleep. I wonder how these people even go on as if nothing ever happened.