yeah we have over a thousand messages fyi

Post a message on their whiteboard.

If i dont respond i sure dont wanna get another one 6 months later

Or you could interact with them in the open and accept that not every one will want to talk to you

i dunno, i tend to think if they missed the first they will just keep on missing them. theres a weirdly large number of "people" here that never seem to interact with anyone

but maybe they're doing it right.

I don't respond to a lot of messages, because they're crap.
Nobody's obligated to answer anyone's message here it's our time/ our choice.

Sometimes you just can't respond to all or even want to plus the unsolicited never even spoke too I'll send a picture or the others that ask weird stuff out the blue then get a different response to what they were expecting

yes a lot of people do not see the request