@Sunchild777, the exact details to that are a secret, but basically by being a good member: interact with other members, following the rules and sending justified reports. Breaking the rules and sending false reports will decrease your reputation.

From Admin Nuno Hello,

You need to wait a few minutes until you can start a new conversation with a new user.

This is just to prevent spam/abuse in our site.

You mean there's a waiting time? It might be to prevent spam. I haven't started one yet.

It's also worth noting that the waiting period will decrease as your reputation on the website rises.

Surely this would only prevent spamming the same thing to lots of different people?

Yeaaaaaa..Whats up with this insane waiting period?