I Have a Suggestion for Similar Worlds

No, I'm with Pinkrainbowkisses on this one - why are you asking this question, specifically about Fetlife being liberated and well moderated? Why SHOULDN'T it be? Perhaps if you clarified a little as to what you're actually asking? Are you wondering why other sites can't deal with queries fairly and timely? Are you wondering why fetlife CAN? Are you wondering why a fetish/adult site bothers with moderation and queries?
There's no reason why it shouldn't be well moderated, I'm sure it saves a lot of potential legal problems! There are porn sites where you don't even have to register to see the smut - at least on fetlife you have to register, even though they have no way of knowing whether you're as old as you claim ...😕
And considering the fact that this question is under "I have a suggestion for similar worlds" I think you need to make it clear what it is you're SUGGESTING.

Oh, and I do have an account on FetLife, although I haven't logged in recently - I used it to get involved in my local BDSM scene, and now I no longer need it😅

bstisapain raised a good point. What is your suggestion for Similar Worlds exactly? For it to be well moderated too? Or did you accidentally post this on the wrong website?

Why what?

I accidently posted on the wrong website yes yes I did upmost apologies sire

Don't worry about it. I'm glad it's cleared up now.

don't you use fetlife dear?

No.