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Checking others' profiles privately isn't a sure thing.

I'm primarily a forum surfer. I like to visit a person's profile before I comment on their posting. It's better to know your audience, and their profile may give an idea of where they're coming from.

Unfortunately, VIPs know when you've checked them out, yet they have the ability to mask their VIP status. Also unfortunate is that they may take my looking as more than it is. So I get cold-call messages from them hopeful that I'm up for chatting, friendship, or something other than just me prepping before making a forum comment.

This makes me reluctant to click on profiles altogether, which makes me less likely to post comments. Lose-Lose.

SW officials: is it really a good idea giving VIPs this ability to monitor the rest of us in this way--secretly, no less?
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HumanEarth · 56-60, F
Well I'm VIP and I mask it as you see it. I myself as a big profile reader myself.

I hate profiles that don't say nothing or ones that are so long. That it get published in hard cover and you can buy it on Amazon.

My profile on here is pretty much spot on. I did have a SW friend rewrite it, because many told me that my original was a bit too harsh and quite scary. So that's why for the rewrite.

So what are I'm not sure what your asking for in this posting.
gailo · 61-69, F
@HumanEarth That somehow, we can check people's profiles privately.
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HumanEarth · 56-60, F
Side note:

I like your profile. I enjoyed reading it. Thank you for having a real profile