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I wouldnt have to defend myself if SW mods actually did something about name shaming on here. Gonna be honest here, i never once had to call someone out because im more accepting but if you gonna call my name out itll come flying back at you 10x Fold. SW as a site that towards sharing personal stories and experience, shouldnt allow name shaming.

SW has created Mute and Block feature which i rarely use because i always give people the benefit of the doubt. Maybe i can talk to them and show them my pov isn't so wrong and i have done that with a few people before and they had remove there rude comment.

(Which is the more mature way of handling the situation)

If a user doesn't like something, Move along its not necessary for you to name shame someone just because your POV about life is different from others. We aren't forcing you to read our experience. This site is for people to find a common ground with and find friends with similar common grounds.

Mute and Block should only be used if someone is threatening or harassing you. Name shaming should be a Mods job to remove the threat by deleting that thread. Unless SW Approves Cyber Bulling then you should say so on the front page so i can pack my things.

I've been bullied irl when i was younger and i dont wanna re-live that on SW.

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CarmenSanDiego · 36-40, F

If people want to send pictures of their privates and genitals, then they deserve to get called out.

There are consequences to your actions. It's not bullying them by calling them out, it's pushing the sexual predator back. It's a form of counter bullying and they do not need protection from moderators.

I'm over accepting unacceptable behavior. Wrong is wrong. Deal with it.

Nymnin · 26-30, F

@CarmenSanDiego actually i dont get dick picture because i have it set where the image is blurred and it my choice to show. I probably have a ton of them but because when pm me with a photo and doesnt look like a face from the blur then i just delete it and move on.

Calling them out isnt necessary especially creating a thread about unless they name shame you first by all means.

But simply calling them out as they are a mistake in life just helps you. You think nude is bad? I wonder what you think about my parent having nude photo of me? Or what do you think of me having a family photo of both me and my parent at a naturist beach nude.

Now im not saying dont defend yourself but theres always an easier approach. Ask them nicely first to show that your tame and have the situation under control and if they keep pushing then by all mean rekt him.

But if your first response is to be hostile it just shows that your are uncapable of handling a small situation that arised.

CarmenSanDiego · 36-40, F

@Nymnin what type of backwards land is this? Hahahaha THEY SHOULDNT SEND THE FUCKING PICTURE WITHOUT CONCENT IN THE FIRST PLACE. And even if they're blurred or not. Not like it makes any difference. It's poor behavior and doesn't need to be protected.

Who cares how your parents choose to raise you.

randomruth · 26-30, F

@Nymnin [quote]But if your first response is to be hostile it just shows that your are uncapable of handling a small situation that arised.[/quote] sorry but that is one of the the dumbest things i have ever heard. if that's how [i]you[/i] want to handle stupidity that's fine, but don't belittle others for wanting to actually take action 🙄

Nymnin · 26-30, F

@randomruth whose belittling people? Im not belittling anyone. Never heard of the saying Keep Calm? Obviously you don't. Thats the thing about people no one ever tries to talk it out first. Ask nicely for them to stop, maybe they will maybe they wont. But if u have to ask a 2nd time by all means rip them a new one. By asking nicely the first time it shows that your mature and in control. But if first thing u do is snap at people then your just as immature as they are.

Example: guys irl call me cute i just thank them and move on. But for some girls guys that call them cute they get creeped out and like go fk off.

^ like what the point of being hostile? Why because you think your a superior person then they are?. Responding so hostile just makes you sound like an overall rude person.

No offense.

randomruth · 26-30, F

@Nymnin you are still ignoring the fact of guys sending dick pics. your example of being called cute is completely irrelevant xD

Nymnin · 26-30, F

@randomruth It took you like a week to come up with a reply?. I totally forgot about this thread till you replied to it. What was this thread about again.

Ok im caught up. It was an Example. You know what that is right?. Google is your best friend use it.

People have different way of expressing themselves and you being hostile towards that is why people don't get along. You sound like your more angry at yourself then the person sending dick pictures.

Have you ever thought what could be the reason for them to send dick pictures? maybe they think your hot and ready or maybe they just think you're cute and wanna show you a good time or maybe they are just perverts. Tell them your not interested and move on. You getting hostile over a dick picture just makes you look more pathetic then the person sending a dick picture. Stop being so fucking sensitive and thinking everything is wrong just cause you think it's wrong.

I get dick pic all the time, i just tell them not interested and they leave me alone. < thats how i handle the situation. so calm down take a deep breathe because jumping for the gun doesn't solve anything.