Trying A New Routine For Messages!

Since there seems to be a lack of messages following up to my replies I decided to try something new that I feel is fair to everyone. I have taken everyone I have been chatting with and put them in ignore messages/ other mail and wont know they are even on unless they reply back to me, after 3 days if no replies will put them in the archived file which I never check. That way I will know who wants to chat and who doesnt.