Are guys on here stupid??

I posted awhile back on my profile that I do not talk to guys on here. The fact I still get private messages from them is pretty dumb since they can clearly read my profile before sending me a message. Look: Its not that I dont want to talk to guys on here, I really do; my family has been going through a tough time and my dad prefers I and my sisters do not talk to guys right now until whatever is going on in our family has been resolved. Please respect that. Thanks.