I Want Someone to Talk Or Chat With

But I’m really not good at it, it’s why I love answering questions about myself because it’s a fun way to get to know each other and I can’t mess up the the answers or have to try and come up with my own questions back.
It’s really frustrating for me to just be so bad at conversing but it’s obviously annoying for the people I’m trying to chat to, any way to fix my problem, you think?

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SomeMichGuy · M

Emerald Odinelle, it might help to try to use the "Golden Rule" in your conversations: you like to be asked about yourself, so others probably like it, too.

So maybe after answering a few questions, you ask a few. Conversations are give-and-take, i.e., two-sided. Just be willing to be actively keeping the flow going.

Often, an answer will spark more questions, so it is really not too hard to keep things moving. 😊

Good luck, and remember that we have all been awkward at some point.