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I was with my cousin's friend. he talks to different girl as he is interested in them to date them, then he leaves them once he. had sex. it just made me realize how easy it is and how these girls are too naive. it is not that hard to find a clear evidence against him. I wonder does love, or companionships cloud their rational mind? or are people not rational to start with? nevertheless it is a type of abuse what he does to these girls.

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youareunique

People have a tendency to convince themselves of things whether there is sufficient evidence or not.

kabibal · 31-35, M

so y cry after and get hurt? it is easier just to be sure

youareunique

Sometimes people are willing to take the risk. I think people generally try to give others the benefit of the doubt

kabibal · 31-35, M

they don't seem to learn from their first mistake

youareunique

People tend to do unwise things. Everyone doesn't learn the first time. Plus, as sexist as it may seem, women tend to be a little more forgiving...unfortunately

kabibal · 31-35, M

It is kinda sad. all women should be strong and independent. only forgive their children.

youareunique

That would be ideal. But I think everyone has to make their own path and life. Mistakes are a part of the journey.

kabibal · 31-35, M

yes, but still it makes me uneasy

youareunique

:) I find it admirable that you feel so strongly opposed to his bad actions and their poor choices.

kabibal · 31-35, M

thank you. hope u r making right decision in ur life.

youareunique

:) I make much better decisions as I get older, but there are still moments of a temporary lack in judgment. It is just part of being human. You make a mistake and move on. It's only a problem if you don't learn anything from it.

kabibal · 31-35, M

true. I don't mind other mistakes we make in life such as financial decision or job, but when it comes to relationship, only make the mistake once and move on.

youareunique

True, but it is easy to say that when you don't have your heart involved and are outside of the situation.

kabibal · 31-35, M

yes but I am sure, I will make a better decision now if there is still love.

youareunique

I truly hope that you do :)

kabibal · 31-35, M

me too