When my nephew was 14, he was on the Internet (Facebook, naturally) asking for WOMEN. Not GIRLS. He was claiming to be 21. Someone (his cousin) found this out and put the word out. As one girl said, "You're 18 and you want to go out with a 14-year-old? That's BABYSITTING!"
You don't find girls or girfriends on the Internet, friend. Go to places where people your age hang out and mingle, or ask other friends if they know a girl who'd like to "double" or be a "blind" date.
Do you p/t work? My nephew is now 19 and he found his current girlfriend at his job. She is a little older than he is (22) but that is better than 14 and an 18-21 year old stranger you hook up with.
Take my advice. Look for someone closer to your age. And P.S., I am not interested. I am past 60.