I Don't Like To Block People

Even no matter how bad people are, I still don't want to block them. If they block me, that's fine. That is their choice.

For me, blocking is meaningless because it does not do good for both parties. Why do we have to block when we chose not to communicate with that person anymore? Why don't we chose to stop interacting with them instead of blocking them? If I feel uncomfortable toward someone, I would just be silent and ignore them. But I will not and will never block them. I have to keep my block list empty and clean.

Furthermore, another reason for not blocking someone is because I believe that no matter how we hate them at this present, we will eventually become normal again and no more hatred toward them within time. And when we meet them again, we will feel like there is nothing happens between them and us. No drama, no hatred, no any of that.

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Pfuzylogic · M

I use mute now so nothing gets started.
If I don’t see their posts it helps my peace of mind.

SW-User

@Pfuzylogic Well, I don't mind if I see their post, especially, if the post is interesting.

Pfuzylogic · M

@SW-User
I find that the people that intentionally aggravate are only trying to get attention. If I ever see someone intentionally try to embarrass someone by scolding them or acting like some type of peer leader; they go right on mute.

SW-User

@Pfuzylogic It's your choice.

Pfuzylogic · M

@SW-User
I commend you.
You have much more tolerance of rude people.

SW-User

@Pfuzylogic The tolerance hurt me more than the rudeness.

Pfuzylogic · M

@SW-User
I like your new profile picture of a bird.

Your last statement confused me a little. How did the tolerance hurt you more than the rudeness?

SW-User

@Pfuzylogic Because it feels as if I was being stabbed many times but still don't fight back.

Pfuzylogic · M

@SW-User
Personal boundaries are the hardest things to form. Pain can be a good starting point as to when they are being taken advantage of. Some people feel that what they think is right and wrong is more important than your own perspective and so these imposed boundaries by others can get you in hurtful situations.

SW-User

@Pfuzylogic Yes, that is true. But being intolerance is not what I'm going to treat them when they hurt me. I find that being tolerance is the only way to escape from this cruel society. And I believe that the act of kindness can cure the act of rudeness. It may not effective all the time, but at least, it works for some people.

I get hurt so many times that I began to get used to it. But that is how I chose to be; to accept the hurtful and deal with it.

Pfuzylogic · M

@SW-User
I think that some people respect your kindness and some take advantage of it:
I do respect your personal commitment. It reminds me of myself when I was young. God bless you.