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Cabernetfranc · 80-89, M
Looks like you fit right in to this group. 🤗

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Stuff Facebook !
Groups are cliquey.
Dominated by those who make most noise to satisfy their own want to dominate something unimportant
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
@Picklebobble2 this is what I’ve found to be true also.
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@Picklebobble2 that does seem to be the way it is. I butt heads with a Top contributor - I thought e we might be friends but I disagreed with something AND now it’s - “you could have just scrolled on” 🙄
Luckylu · 61-69, F
I stopped trying to fit in years ago. I am who I am and take one person at a time. Quality friendship with one person is better than quantity of people who just don’t want to know you.
SW-User
How can you feel unwanted in a Facebook group? There are a lot of people on those things in every group that have a different opinion and constantly argue. Perhaps a Facebook chat I could understand if you were left out.
SW-User
@CestManan Yeah but on my Facebook groups the people who get the attention are getting it for all the wrong reasons. 😂
CestManan · 46-50, F
@SW-User Eh typical on the web.
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@SW-User
It’s a story. And there is a chat involved. A few of the people said things that appeared innocently suggesting I wasn’t ready for what some of the people in the group were aiming and I didn’t think much of it because I didn’t think it really mattered but I kept getting increasing feeling of vague or subtle hints touching on the same idea. These people aren’t even the group monitors so I think they a just people or a person who thinks a little too highly of theirself. And there was an incident with another person who is a very active group member And he wanted to go on a date but I didn’t agree to his terms. If they’re in the same clique. I’m afraid of being gossiped about. Oh And before that there was a nice lady I met who I felt comfortable enough to open up to and I didn’t agree with her point of view about dating. I’m disappointed she hasn’t reached out to me since. I made it obvious I wanted to be friends. Either she doesn’t like me or is just too busy for me.
edtur61 · 61-69, M
You will find many interesting people and groups here.
CestManan · 46-50, F
Hell with FB.

But yeah this isn't a dating site per se but cool to hang out here. Some people do not get along but eventually you kind of click with certain ones and all is well.
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@CestManan that’s ok I’m not here for dates
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Be a sigma = you don't need to be liked and you still get to say what you want and not play to the crowd.
Nick1 · 61-69, M
Big hug. Don’t let them put you off and feel bad. There are many people who will be glad to be your friends.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Leave that group and search for a better one with better energy. Life is too short to wait for validation.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
How is that possible? You look and sound like wonderful mature woman.
originnone · 61-69, M
We ALL like you here....
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@originnone aww thank you. But you don’t know me.
originnone · 61-69, M
@Stuffy doesn't matter. we're family here.
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
Leave that group
SW-User
I opened a Facebook account years ago, took a look around and left almost immediately. None of my RL friends and family had accounts, and I didn't find the place as friendly as other online forums.
Ynotisay · M
Wouldn't put too much weight on anything related to Facebook.
I have not been on facebook for years as someone hacked my profile.
Dshhh · M
facebook is pretty toxic
CestManan · 46-50, F
@Dshhh The most toxic aspect though is that some people try to hide behind an "Anonymity" that doesn't really exist on FB.
Well like on most forums we have no clue who we are really interacting with but on there we do.

YET some people still talk smack on FB, quickly forgetting they will likely have to interact in real life.

Like people complaining about their boss or job or insulting a friend or relative.

We all seen that a few times
Tres13 · 51-55, M
What’s the Group?
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@Tres13 it is a singles group.
CultOfPersonality · 36-40, M
F*ck Facebook!!

 
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