Rejecting Facebook friend requests is very rude! [I Facebook]

What if it’s someone that you’ve known since your childhood?! What is someone that you’ve known for a few years I want to reconnect with you? It’s so rude to do that and you should be ashamed of yourself!! I know people grow apart but that doesn’t mean you have to reject their friend request and that’s so rude!! Shame on you! Everyone deserves a second chance you make it happen! TALK TO THEM!
You don’t “ACCIDENTALLY” reject it. You CHOSE too so don’t be making that excuse!

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SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow · 36-40, F

I am allowed to restrict who i want in my life anyway or anytime i see fit. Rude or not 🤷

Lilnonames · F

@SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow thats what i said on the last post 5 minutes ago

TotallyValleyGirl · F

@SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow what if it’s a long time friend that wanted to reconnect with you? Or someone you have known for six years?

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

@SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow <3 it used to enrage me when a girl wouldn't accept but now that i'm older and have actually thought about it I do it too.I was a hypocrite.

SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow · 36-40, F

@TotallyValleyGirl doesn't matter. Their rights end where mine begin. If I don't want them in my life then I don't want them in my life. I don't owe anyone an explanation. It is my job to take care of my self. If I don't accept a friend request I have my own personal reason.

KiwiBird · 36-40, F

@SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow Exactly. Your choice.

SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow · 36-40, F

@TotallyValleyGirl you don't have to like your friends choice, but you should respect it. You will only make a fool of yourself if you don't.

TotallyValleyGirl · F

@SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow OK you have a point you have every right to except or not except anyone but if it’s a friend I’ve known for a couple years is kind of rude. Maybe he or she wanted to reconnect but it’s your choice you do what you want.

TotallyValleyGirl · F

@SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow yeah you’re right I got a respect her choice. I’m not gonna make a big deal out of it anymore

SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow · 36-40, F

@TotallyValleyGirl i get it, I'm sure it feels rude, and I'm sure it hurts, and for that I'm sorry. You still have the right to be upset, you get to choose how you process that. but people have the right to set their own boundaries. When you don't you end up getting walked all over. Believe me, I'm 36 and just now resetting healthy boundaries.

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

@SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow yeah i've changed. I was a bit of a pushover for awhile in my teen years and now that i'm older it's just like.... I might compromise but I have to really like you to not be all my way or the highway, like nowadays if theres any give you have to know I care a lot. I will not take shit from anyone anymore.