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Don't get it??

I really am having a hard time trying to understand why one blocks you mid conversation. Someone texts you and gives you positive feed back and loves and expresses they have the same interests and belong to your same groups. They share their interest and desire. You share yours and you both are on the same page. Then BAM. YOUR BLOCKED. Why waste the time to chat if you truly were not interested or had ulterior motives. Just be honest. How hard is that.
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
I suspect some are looking for certain things and are not willing to say even over PMs. When they find out that isn't your interest, the block is used to count you out for possible contact.

In other words you are a possibility until proven not. They let you mention how you feel about the subject first though.

I have noticed when I mentioned that I insist on consent, I sometimes get blocked. They want someone that is open minded in ways that I really won't be.

Consent is just one situation that could be applied to other situations.

Another situation might be a sub looking for a dominant. If I were to mention that I was a switch, which I am, that would be another block.

The list could be endless though. Even political reasons.

A way to get around some of this is to put much of this in your about me. Then refer that they look in it for that type of stuff.

That will be a no go from the start. They don't want to read. So they might block you right away. They want to control the subject in a covert manner.
openDADinAZ · 61-69, M
@DeWayfarer thank you for your insight and take. I have to agree with you on it and you hit the nail. What happened today is just what you suggested. She actually gave a possitve comment on this very post. We started a normal conversation nothing deep or in line with interests. Based on her profile i could see we really had a few vanilla topics in common. But then she said she was into and practiced one of my topics of interests. I stated wow that is out of left field based on your groups. We continue chatting and then i sensed something as a reply took a bit. I looked and was blocked. Why would you block after mentioning a topic of a group i am in after sharing maybe falsely, your into. To many fakes and hypocrites lately. Its why i am now questioning why i stay
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@openDADinAZ You'll find this on all social media. I literally have been on the Internet for 35 years now.

For every thousand negatives you might get a positive. It's not just the fakes.

You have to weed the garden. There's no getting around it.
openDADinAZ · 61-69, M
@DeWayfarer very true. Thats why i have stopped posting and interacting on FB and IG. Im done on those. I just surf there only
tonialta · F
Yes that happens around here. I just tell someone that we don’t have anything in common so goodbye. Only block if they insist on talking about anything
openDADinAZ · 61-69, M
@tonialta that would be nice if they did that from the start. But they began the conversation and shared. I was cool with chatting. But if you begin the chat then mid conversation just block without saying anything. Thats rude in my opinion
tonialta · F
@openDADinAZ very rude. So I block them to so they can’t change their minds
openDADinAZ · 61-69, M
@tonialta lol. I do the exact same thing. 🤣🤣
eyeno · M
So Sorry it happened....we've all asked that same question.

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Adogslife · 61-69, M
I read that as a someine trying to play you and you didn’t take the bait the way they wanted.

Thus, you actually are better off with the outcome.
openDADinAZ · 61-69, M
@Adogslife thank you. I feel the same way. Kinda sad how they get their jollies.
Confined · 56-60, M
Has happened to me quite a few times.
openDADinAZ · 61-69, M
@Confined its frustrating and rude
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openDADinAZ · 61-69, M
@Zonuss thank you so very much. I couldn't agree more with you or said it any better. Usually i am pretty good and let it slide. But its becoming increasingly more common. Add that to my uncommon funk im in just had to vent. Did it feel good yes, did it do anything to change no. May have fed into their childish behavior. But for that 1 fleeting moment, i felt good.
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openDADinAZ · 61-69, M
@jshm2 couldnt agree with you more. And normally i wouldn't comment nor let it bother me. It was just that they started the conversation and when it got to real or maybe deeper than you wanted you block. GTF up. Lol.

 
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