the best way to fight a person online who you think is trying to make you a 'victim'
for example, i'm quite popular on youtube and usually get a lot of thumbs up on my comments, support for my comments, people agreeing with me etc, but there's times i don't get that or instead, like recently i had a person reply to my comment and try to undermine everything i said in my comment, invalidate it and try to make me look stupid...basically make out that the opposite of what i said, is instead the reality? and basically everything he or she put in their reply was not relevant to me or anything i said.
so in times like that, i interpret that they are trying to make me into a 'victim'? i see others i'm subscribed to get this kind of insult as well, but i struggle to know how to deal with it sometimes, because my first instinct is to get very aggressive with the person, and i mean type something really aggressive in a very direct way....but don't want to get any shit or backlash.....but at the same time feel outraged and feel that what they replied with must be fought, rather than ignored?
there's a time to ignore and a time to respond.....the hard thing is, i struggle at times to know when to make the right decision?
any input would be valued.
so in times like that, i interpret that they are trying to make me into a 'victim'? i see others i'm subscribed to get this kind of insult as well, but i struggle to know how to deal with it sometimes, because my first instinct is to get very aggressive with the person, and i mean type something really aggressive in a very direct way....but don't want to get any shit or backlash.....but at the same time feel outraged and feel that what they replied with must be fought, rather than ignored?
there's a time to ignore and a time to respond.....the hard thing is, i struggle at times to know when to make the right decision?
any input would be valued.
46-50, M