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i need help pleas

This is the second time I have asked for help, and I really need it.To be honest, I really care about my teacher. I’ve changed schools and would love to get in touch to thank her. I’ve searched all over social media but couldn't find her; even when I came across accounts with similar names, I wasn't sure if they were actually hers. I sent a message but got no repl I don't know if it was an old account or simply not her. I even checked LinkedIn but still couldn't find her. I could technically meet her in person to thank her, but I’m too shy. What should I do? Please help.
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You’re obsessed with this teacher, you’re obsessed with some guy and you want to learn hacking…….

HikingMan · 56-60, M
Just go see her and say hello.
Tell her that you’re nervous but really wanted to thank her for her Tutelage.


The only thing to fear is fear itself.
Judith2 · 22-25, F
@HikingManIt is very difficult to face it and say it; I once tried, but I couldn't bring myself to speak.
HikingMan · 56-60, M
@Judith2 social anxiety and awkwardness are sometimes caused by an acute fear of rejection that stems from early childhood trauma.

You need to ask yourself, what’s the worst possible outcome?

In this situation I’d think that the worst that could happen is that she’d walk away without acknowledging you. The most like case, she’ll say something like You’re welcome, and be flattered or proud. Best case could be as nice as having a decent conversation after and becoming friends.

In any event none of these scenarios places you into anything dangerous or at risk of any true harm. With that being the case, I think you should face your rejection fear head on and just do it.

I hope this helps.

Be well
Live happy
Keep trying,
Rob
Judith2 · 22-25, F
@HikingMan ouu thank uu for your advice You are very kind. iwill try it again And I will tell you what happened.
WanderingHelplessly · 51-55, MNew
Probably, suck it up and thank her in person.
PHlover19701 · 56-60, M
Many schools have email accounts for the staff. Check the school website to send her a message.
Judith2 · 22-25, F
@PHlover19701 I don't know where she live.
PHlover19701 · 56-60, M
@Judith2 send it to the school.
Judith2 · 22-25, F
Stop stalking people is a good start.
Judith2 · 22-25, F
@Magicianzini buuut I am not stalking her; I just want to know her account and where she lives to thank her
@Judith2 This sounds sus af.
Forget about her, live your life the way she wanted you to. Be thankful and remember her fondly, but drop the stalking hunting thing.
TexChik · F
Stop! If she wanted to be in contact with you , she would. Your obsession and cyber stalking will only lead you to disaster. If you respect her , you will leave her alone .
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Try Google.
Judith2 · 22-25, F
@Zonuss hoow
best to avoid as, when your at school they are all powerful and unatainable, but once your with them, just another person
lissah · 36-40, F
You dont want to send it to the school? You dont need her private address. Thats just weird.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Teaching is a minefield when it comes to personal contacts. Many teachers avoid it completely to avoid the risks it can present.😷
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M

 
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