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Seeking Attention

I have to confess that one of the primary reasons why I'm even on this site is the attention I receive from just being here and uploading images and discussing certain issues. I don't know why, but I seem to crave it. I don't think that I'm a narcissist, but I seem to have such tendencies to a certain, limited degree, and I've also noticed that it tends to feed on itself; that is, the more I do it, the more I need it.
As I understand it, the research that has been conducted about social media has found that the companies involved have deliberately designed their "products" to be as addictive as possible, employing the knowledge gained in psychology over many decades to "tweak" the system so that people end up wasting as much time on it as possible, with the result being that now millions of people are just wasting their precious time on something that is just making their lives worse.
The recent move by the government of Australia to ban social media for those under the age of sixteen, is, in my view, doomed to fail. It can't possibly work, and it's already failing, because the legislation involved was written by a bunch of old boomers who probably don't even know the difference between a laptop and a microwave oven, and they're up against tech-savvy teens and pre-teens who grew up with smartphones, computers, social media and all that.
In spite of all of this, I remain optimistic. People are finally starting to wake up and realise they've been swindled, and with the AI bots rapidly multiplying all over the internet, it's just a matter of time before they've infected every site on the planet, and people just won't bother with it anymore. They'll realise that reality cannot be replaced by something so fake, and the internet will be left to the bots.
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Softy1 · M
I will give you attention!
DLight · 31-35, F
@Softy1 😘
SW-User
You can count on me
DLight · 31-35, F
@SW-User Yay! ☺
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
I do share your views about the interest and AI bots people will stop trusting what they see and hear and crave the more authentic experience of the real world
Manofoz · 61-69, M
I believe that will happen
WasEP · 51-55, M
Enjoy the attention
Ontheroad · M
What I see is that social media boomed for a moment and then degenerated into the likes of X and others like it.

Places like SW and the previous EP which is no more, have nearly vanished and it's a shame.

Personally, I think true social media, the social media of the past was far superior to what passes off as social media today.
DLight · 31-35, F
@Ontheroad Yes, what we like to call 'social media' simply isn't like what it was before, when it first began. Apart from this site and 'YouTube' I haven't really used it. This site is interesting, and easy to use. I tried using Twitter (I refuse to refer to it by that stupid letter that Elon loves so much - that guy is just another rich prick), but I just couldn't get the hang of it, it wasn't very user-friendly in my view. Too confusing.
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Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
In many ways I think we as humans crave validation, be it from family, peers, general public. There is also a craving of being desired, maybe sexually, socially, however. Of course this is a sweeping generalization, but I think that is what social media preys on. That desire to be approved, wanted.

I also agree trying to restrict it from teens is just going to fail, they are way too savvy and can figure ways around it.
DLight · 31-35, F
@Lackwittyname In Australia it's already failing, the "teens" are already finding ways to get around the restrictions. It took about two days for that to start happening, LOL 😂
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@DLight Big shocker haha.
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
Addictive until sw,lol
You mean you're not on here for the intellectual conversations?
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I think in way or another were all seeking some sort of attention being on here or any other social media site.

 
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