SW messages will rarely if ever solve the issue of being alone. Just not a realistic expectation.

you should have read them.

wow you are populars

yeah, sw will do that.

aren't you curious to see who is even messaging you?

Maybe you should reply to them

maybe you are alone because you are unfriendly to everyone? you know?

Sw will never truly fill any type of void
Focus on offline type things

most of them are probably just creeps wanting to get off.