Do you ever feel bad about not responding to all the DMs you get here?

Okay, I guess the women who get 100 DMs a day probably don't 😅 I don't get that many, but I get enough that I have to choose some to ignore and some to respond to. I can't have twelve conversations going on at once, it's just too much. Especially since I sometimes go days without logging in. I also suspect that many who message me are just here for sex talk and that's [probably] not what I want. By choosing to respond to certain ones, I've made friends here and I'm grateful for that. But sometimes I wonder if I had chosen different people to respond to, I could've been friends with them too. Oh well. Such is life. 🤷🏼‍♂

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caPnAhab · 26-30, M

I don't feel bad. I have it written in my message intro that I'd rather chat publicly and may ignore DMs.

If anyone decides to direct message me then that's completely on them

ElwoodBlues · M

Nope, not at all. If I get a DM from someone I haven't interacted with in conversation here, I assume it's some kind of catfishing or similar garbage. So I "archive" the message without responding. That means I never have to hear from that person again!!