feel angry when i see women say ' both ' online

especially if they're replying to me and say 'both' because i think they are playing a mind game with me, like they are indirectly saying i'm mixed race, thats why they're saying ' both' to insinuate i'm ' both' two different races? and i'm NOT, i am white, so feel outraged that they would post that word, also these women don't know me to say ' both' and assume somethin false about me!