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Why do men I barely knew 10+ years ago send me friend/follow requests, cancel them, then re-send them?

There are two guys who have done this to me, one has been doing it for awhile, but has now stopped (for the time being, anyway).

I knew both in high school, and I was cordial with one, but it was the usual small talk. I was never friends with and didn't talk to the second one, and he had a reputation for being a player. I haven't seen or spoken to either of these people in 10+ years.

Anyway, over a decade after high school, I've gotten friend/follow requests from both. The first will send one, cancel it, then re-send it, and that goes off and on. The second recently sent one, then canceled it a day or two later.

I just find it weird. Is there a reason why someone would do this?
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pdockal · 56-60, M
Hmmmmmm
Probably because they sent it& you didn't respond so they think they need to keep reminding you so eventuality you'll give in & accept