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Debating particular topics isn't being hateful.

You've referred to me as a dude numerous times. That's disrespectful. Among other things. I've nothing to prove here or to anyone else. You're just here to troll. That's your objective, because you don't like what I post. Simples. I've no malicious intent whatsoever. You however choose to attack me for your own gratification. No doubt a one handed keyboard warrior 🤮

My response to a troll.
Sadly, many will attack you here, for having a differing view.
Been called far right, sexist, racist, anti this and that.
Seriously, labelling people for not conforming to what you believe is ridiculous.
This is why society will never fully live harmoniously. Why the world is always at war.
We can't all think the same. It isn't human nature.
A difference in opinion however isn't hateful.

Why can't people online understand that?!

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pillowprincess · F

Maybe, just maybe look into the mirror and look at your own behavior, and avoidance of interacting with people. It might help you if you weren't deflecting stuff as being self explanatory as soon as you don't want to let people understand where your obsession on a topic comes from.

I've seen your responses to the one you're making references at, and another man inside the same thread on one of your posts, and you trying to insinuate they were online lowers exchanging nudes. Even if they were, there would be nothing wrong therein and it certainly won't make your own avoidance in reasoning any less deflective.

Until I see a more thoroughly explanation from you on your obsession on the LGBTQ topic I will look at you as hateful/phobic at best. You don't allow me to see you any differently as you deny to engage with me on the topic for me to get an understanding of your unhealthy obsession. It won't matter how many times you say [i]"I don't hate"[/i] as long as your actions speaks in another direction.

However, try look into the mirror more often and examine your own behavior towards people of different ways to look at a topic than you. It might surprise you.

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Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@pillowprincess I hope you lecture all those on this thread with the same vigour those goading and being disrespectful towards me are justified in their actions are they? Works both ways.
I don't have to justify or explain anything. My viewpoint is just different. Not wrong.

pillowprincess · F

@Lanie78
Do tell me wherein I should lecture them? What specifically is attacking you? To me it seems they try to tell you the same as I do, in their own wordings respectfully. But do tell me where you think they went over the line, and I'll look it up.

Your viewpoint as you call it, which you funnily also call as you [i]"don't hate"[/i] is avoidance of letting people understanding where you're are coming from, at best. At worst, it's an effort to hide your true motives behind your obsession. Maybe coz you know it will show your hatred/phobia, I can't tell as you won't let us in which is also why we can only judge you on your public presence here... Which is hateful/phobic in a backhanded way, no matter how much you try to mask it under discussing a topic.

And that.. [b][i]is wrong![/i][/b]

NativePortlander1970 ·

@pillowprincess Let me referee here, you both have been raised by entirely different cultures, you both stand opposite of each other because of it, different generations play into it as well, the one that Lanie78 and I belong to was raised to be more reserved and quiet concerning various issues, that they're to remain private, while the Millennials and Zoomers couldn't care less about what's discussed.

NativePortlander1970 ·

@pillowprincess It's not hatred or phobia, we're just sick and tired of hearing and seeing it every time we turn around. Adult issues were a lot more subtle and hidden while her and I were growing up, now kids are bombarded with it. Yes, I am technically part of the LGBTQ cimmunity, but it disgusts me how it no longer restrains itself.

pillowprincess · F

@NativePortlander1970
You should get facts straight before judging anything. You’re basing your subjective judgement on your own assumptions.

NativePortlander1970 ·

@pillowprincess I'm basing them on the 53 years of observation of living all over the Continental United States, and working with a diverse demographic of different people, most of whom I called Friend when I knew them. I have lived and worked in very small rural towns in the middle of nowhere, as well as large metropolitan cities. Do not ASSume I don't know anything.

pillowprincess · F

@NativePortlander1970
You know nada about me. You’re basing all your judgement on your own assumptions.

Aside of that, take good care. I really don’t want to waste my time on your very subjective opinions. You calling yourself referee is a joke!

Please stay away from me in the future or I’ll block you.

NativePortlander1970 ·

@pillowprincess Thank you for proving my point to everyone who you are, you're no better than the ones you accuse, I know exactly who you are, I met so many just like you, you're all the same, so buh bye.

pillowprincess · F

@NativePortlander1970
You know nothing about me and have proven yourself to be [b]prejudicial[/b], from assumptions on my age to my cultural upbringing. You’ve shown your self-absorption, and inability to know when you overstep the lines, even after having been made aware thereof.

BobbyMoeven · 51-55, M

@NativePortlander1970

WTF ....reserved ? Quiet ? More like hold your tongue or else have it removed !!

So , you would rather go backwards to times when things were swept under the carpet to give the appearance of clean and tidy culture .... The next step is bleach !!

This kind of speak of sanitizing is going way beyond the subject matter presented here ,

But to the point in matter , multiple people have approached this subject to @Lanie78 with the greatest of patience , and real clarity and factual insight, and clear candour.. but all of which has been clearly ignored or swept aside or deflected .... Bringing insight and acceptance into the public framework is not a step backwards , but another step forwards for generations to come , if you and @Lanie78 choose to be closeted about the , then so be it , and keep it to yourselves , but do not post and comment here and pretend to be basteons of freedom , and then ask for it in only tiny increments , and then sweep the rest out of sight .. Thats just pure BS , and that is what many have sussed out and clearly called it ...

pillowprincess · F

@BobbyMoeven
That one won't be able to reply to your comment underneath my thread as I blocked them after they showed no intent in changing their attitude around ASSuming stuff on my age, cultural background etc. I have no time for people inserting themselves as "objective referees" just to play biased games.

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@pillowprincess my goodness you seriously take issue to people not seeing the things the way you do don't you. Blocking someone because actually they make a very valid point, and you don't like it!

pillowprincess · F

@Lanie78
Oh, hi there, good morning, I thought you told me goodbye last night. How are [b]all[/b] your followers, everyone cool? That's nice dear.

As for your issue comment, I'm not the one creating posts on how I'm mistaken by everyone on this site. Have a lovely day... Let me know when you're ready to reply on my questions about your unhealthy LGBTQ+ obsession, and if you think we should talk about autism in same ways as you do about LGBTQ+ issues.

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Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@Rolexeo Ah yes, others have mentioned the same. She's basically a bully.

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@pillowprincess From what I've heard and have concluded myself actually after your interactions with me. The only one here with a problem is YOU.

pillowprincess · F

@Lanie78
Sure others have mentioned the same. I tend to call out homophobic right-wingers that won't know how to defend their [i]"opinions"[/i] in any other way than calling me all sorts of names, just as you do. Quite funny how that troll yesterday told everyone how they never had seen you name calling anyone, isn't it? Again, I guess telling someone when they deflect a question is [i]bullying[/i] these days. You really should go look for those Kleenex I offered you yesterday.

Aww, this is nice... Are we having fun again and you regret telling me goodbye last night?

That's good, then let me know when you're ready to reply on my questions about your unhealthy LGBTQ+ obsession, and if you think we should talk about autism in same ways as you do about LGBTQ+ issues.

@Rolexeo
Oh my, you really are a sensitive snowflake that only knows how to dish it out...

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@pillowprincess The really sad thing is, you've just spent the last 10 mins typing a comeback, only to make yourself look even more silly. Do carry on though, as I'm sure this is very entertaining for others to read....

pillowprincess · F

@Lanie78
You really think I'm sitting around and wait for your more and more irrational comments for me to reply back immediately? [Rhetorical question] In that case it must have taken you 54 minutes to type your two sentence comeback for me earlier.

Btw, you keep on deflecting, did you regret telling me goodbye last night? I told you you couldn't stay away from me. I'm sorry tho, you're not really my type...

Let me know when you're ready to reply on my questions about your unhealthy LGBTQ+ obsession, and if you think we should talk about autism in same ways you do about LGBTQ+ issues.

Rolexeo · 26-30, M

@pillowprincess No shortage of LGBTQ people with autism....

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@pillowprincess Oh there you are....just over half an hour this time. Can see you were itching to reply sooner though. Erm, deflecting nah. I just think discussing anything of interest with you is pointless. You're one of these people who will pick fault no matter what. I'm guessing you're on the spectrum though, as you do tend to repeat yourself. I'm just here now for the entertainment....😊

pillowprincess · F

@Rolexeo
You think either, or both of those to be insulting words? Take your bravado somewhere else, you're really not impressive at all.

@Lanie78
Then let me know if you're ready to go back inside the threads and reply on my questions about your unhealthy LGBTQ+ obsession, and if you think we should talk about autism in same ways you do about LGBTQ+ issues. I see, you think autism is insulting too. Interesting. Do keep on.

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@pillowprincess Clearly I don't wish to discuss either with you any further. If I did, I would have. As for an "unhealthy obsession" it appears to be you who has one. You seem unable to let it go. Switch your brain off and do something productive, rather than get in a tiz about something you have no control over.
You can't and never will be able to MAKE people think as you do.

Everyone has a right to their views and opinions. They don't have to justify them to please your obsession with the topic in hand.

pillowprincess · F

@Lanie78
And deflecting again, do you think using autism/spectrum about someone is an insult? And no worries, I'm perfectly aware that you won't go into discussing any of this with me. You know the outcome would be you admitting to things you're not ready to face yet.

It's quite funny how wordy you got with me today, just to throw insults rather engaging in real exchange of words like in communicating to make an understanding of where you come from. Especially since you already told me goodbye last night, and I haven't been seeking you to comment on any of your stuff today. Again, you really aren't my type, ever so sorry. And you're of course granted to take back the kiss you sent me last night. Sweet dreams.

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@pillowprincess rather assumptious of you to think I'd be the slightest bit interested, and I'm pleased to hear I'm not your type. I tend to keep my distance from self absorbed pricklyprincesses. I tend to go for kings anyway, but if I were that way inclined, I'd be looking for a queen 😂 Plus I don't consider my replies insulting, but clearly you do. Nevermind.

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