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oh no, what should i do now

there's a woman on facebook who i have been private messaging years, she took an interest in me...and i started to like her a lot, we have been sending each other simple affectionate messages to each other for years.....recently i updated my facebook profile picture and added a photo of when i was young with my mum on holiday at a hotel, i looked quite cute back then.. i was only 14 at the time.


but this woman commented on that photo and said ' post a picture of you now', there are no current photos of me on my facebook because i deleted them because i was ashamed how i look? i don't have much self confidence....because i'm bald now, i have aged in my face...and have a moustache....and i'm just scared if this woman i like was to see a current photo of me, i would never hear from her again?


on top of that, i cope with a mental disorder a personality disorder, but she doesn't know that, as she doesn't know me that well yet?


so what should i do in this situation? she is a woman i have begun to like and i don't want to lose her....but she has asked to see a recent photo of me, and i don't feel that confident about it...so what should i do?

i am in my mid 40s, and this woman is in her 50s.
Isthisit · F Best Comment
Open up to her and tell her the truth. If she really cares about you she wont run away or be put of. I can relate to you so much in regards to recent pictures. I hate when people ask me for pictures. My pfp is about 2 years old and ive aged since then and dont like the way i look. I too have mental illness. I hope you find the courage to open up to her.
Jungleman · M
@Isthisit thankyou so much for relating, it's a real difficult situation to be in i think, i'll try to find the courage to open up to her, come what may, thanks again and thanks for adding me as a friend.
Isthisit · F
@Jungleman youre so welcome!
Isthisit · F
And thankyou for best comment!

Notanymore · 36-40, M
Send her a picture. You can't hide it forever.

 
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