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When I came back here I was kind of

uncomfortable and nervous so I blocked people that knew me because if my friends found out I’m back ,then my bullies would too. It wasn’t a bad intention; I was just not ready and nervous. I’ve gotten anxiety from members here in the past which affected me mentally. I know that’s kind of dramatic but being bullied online isn’t a piece of cake. We are human and have feelings that we can’t dismiss. Anyway, I unblocked all my friends except for the ones that abandoned me and ignored me before I left the last time. They turned away from me when I actually tried to interact with them. I still admire them and wish them well but I’ll rid them of my presence here because they showed me that I’m not important to them. It’s ok, I don’t hold grudges to people online. I’m not saying I’m perfect either. I’ve made mistakes unconsciously, but,we all do. One thing I will never tolerate is someone painting me as a villain because I’m not and they don’t even know me. It’s cruel to judge others online when you don’t know them or their lives.
ClassicRocker · 56-60, M Best Comment
Don't worry, you got this. I like you and I think you are really cool.
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@ClassicRocker Thank you, youre cool as well !
ClassicRocker · 56-60, M
@SW-User Thank you for BC and being my friend 🤗
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@ClassicRocker very Velcom. 🤪😇😊

This post makes me proud of you. Plus I relate to so much of what you've said.😉

I know that’s kind of dramatic but being bullied online isn’t a piece of cake. We are human and have feelings that we can’t dismiss.

No, it's far from fun because I was done the same way for two years, and a lot of those so called friends abandoned me as well. Some came back when they finally saw the game she was playing. I wish the rest well, but want no part of them in my journey here. The most disheartening fact, was one who became a new target of such bully, ended up demanding people to block me. She even blocked her own best friend because he refused to. These catty chicks & their blind followers make no sense to me.

One thing I will never tolerate is someone painting me as a villain because I’m not and they don’t even know me.

These people are merely projecting what they are themselves. After awhile, I actually started to feel sorry for her. How miserable someone must be to consistently try to ruin someone's else's name. However, I've had to apologize to two different people myself over something unrelated.

All we can do is be the bigger person, and if they fail to forgive, then that's on them. I've chosen to forgive them because I believe it's the right thing to do. The saddest part for one particular person, is I don't even think he has it in his conscious to realize he did anything wrong. There are so many hidden gems of wisdom he fails to mention on his new account here. He'd rather play the victim. Me? I've expressed all over this platform my wrong doings because I'm truthful with myself & I hate victim mentality.

Keep that chin up buttercup. It looks good on you.💫
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Thank you. I love everything you wrote on here because it’s genuine and true. I loathe catty chicks and their horny blind followers. 😅 This place has become a popularity contest and the most popular and manipulative lady wins. I don’t have the energy to try my best to make people online love and praise me, but, some others do. All I want is to be respected and left alone if they dislike me. I’m not upset being blocked as long as they don’t harass me with cruel posts and comments. I’m sorry this has happened to you. I have never experienced you being cruel to me or others. Some members on here have serious issues and they’re taking it out on us. I’m not perfect and neither are they but they are total narcissists. I want nothing to do with them or their followers but I can’t block too many people and make myself look bad. It’s best to just ignore they exist. Many people avoid me here because of the popular ones slandering me. To be honest I say: Fik them. Never waste energy on people that aren’t worth your time. We know ourselves and have our true friends so we don’t need anyone else. Many people gave me the cold shoulder after praising me but they’re not important. We just have to take care of ourselves and avoid stressful drama online. We already have too much stress offline to care about these cruel poisonous snakes. 💪💪💪🌈👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼😇😇😇❤️❤️@MoonlightLullaby
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@MoonlightLullaby you know how I feel about all of that. I am sorry there are people like this. You are completely right, it’s all projection.
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
You have to do what you need to do to protect yourself. I am sorry you have gone through this. I only have a few female friends here because I find women to be very catty. I had one female friend here lie to me about a lot of stuff and I come to find out it’s a pattern with her.
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@iamonfire696 Talk to them but keep your guard up in case or they’ll use it against you
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User that’s good advice 💞
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@iamonfire696 👌🏼
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@Biolent not really

 
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