Based on the post [how do smoking parents deal with their smoking and their children?]

The last thread (from Lars2se. by the way: great words because of good parents and smoking ;)) was about how parents separate smoking and children (or not). I would really like to talk to other parents about it. Please no fetish stuff like "I let my child smoke at 3 or I blow smoke in his face as a baby". I would just like to talk and exchange views or hear other ways and meanings

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AmberDuponte · 26-30, F

Both myself and my wife (lesbian couple) smoke and we have a 4 year old together who sees us smoke, true, but also sees us making dinner, doing the washing, going shopping, ironing etc.

Neither of us want it to be seen as something sordid for our child, but more of an everyday thing that we do. No more, no less.

mommyoflittle · F

@AmberDuponte good comment. Thats how it should be.

Lars2se · M

@Mia3b my main reason why i smoke in front of my kids and at home is that i want to spend a lot of time with them. As much as possible. And i dont want to leave my kid/s all few minutes or need to say "pls leave the room" only because i want to smoke...

But how knows it better than u @Mia3b ;)

Mia3b · F

@Lars2se yea. Thats right 😅

Ihopetolivehappily · M

I don't smoke but my dad does.

I never understood the pleasure in smoking.

Lars2se · M

@Ihopetolivehappily I can totally understand that if you are a non-smoker

Ihopetolivehappily · M

@Lars2se 😅 I did try a couple of times.

And gave up.

Lars2se · M

@Ihopetolivehappily I can understand that well. For me, the "attempts" probably worked very quickly. And that's why it's like this now. It's really interesting how quickly it affects some people and not others.

PDog70 · 51-55, M

Hi Smoking mom, I'd be only to happy to connect with you to share our smoking pleasures. I am a smoker who was encouraged by my aunty to let her help me start to smoke when I was just a young boy. I wasn't, until she explained to me how beneficial smoking would be for me, that a child of my age, 7, could even be a real smoker. But with her by my side, that is exactly what happened. Not only that but, due to me age, I god rapidly addicted and developed a heavy habit that I still and always will have cherish really). I think you should feel perfectly entitled to smoke heavily around your kids and let them see how beautiful smoking feels for you. xoxo

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