When you hear that your ex would never date anyone who associates with weed

So you purposely talk about toking up just in case they're watching.

P.S don't worry, i started after our breakup. Since I cared about what you thought of me so much, it was sickening when we were together. I had no individuality whatsoever trying to make sure you stay in love with me 😂 gross

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Reject · 31-35, M

I was the same way Lily. Losing my individuality trying to be whatever would work for someone. The reason that fails is because you have to be a real person to be loved, so if they don’t already love who you are, then they’ll never love who you aren’t either.

SailorMarz · F

@Reject it took my late 20's to understand that 🙄

Reject · 31-35, M

@SailorMarz Don’t worry. I only learned that back in 2017 after you and lot of other people blocked me for doing that. So it took me forever too.

SailorMarz · F

@Reject a lot of other??? Oh. And I envy everyone who's been secure in themselves enough to be who they are, regardless of what their partner or anyone else thinks of them.

I see confident young girls and think "damn you were like born that way?" Lmao

Reject · 31-35, M

@SailorMarz Yeah, I was asking for help because nobody liked me. I don’t envy the people who are confident/secure enough to be who they are because that was me. I envy the people who can do that and still be liked because that was never me.