Why is it normal to comment on bruises and details of someone else's body?

I also don't get what is gained from that.

I have bruises because I do lot of physical work and my body isn't the best. Not everyone gets to look pretty 24/7.

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PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 31-35, M

I know what you mean. It's rude coming from strangers it just means they are shallow it says nothing about you, you are a hard worker and nothing is wrong with you 🤗
It's kinda like telling a wheelchair user that you'd rather die than use one. I mean it was actually a former friend who said that to me but whatever I guess some people just don't think at all. The problem doesn't seem to be in you or me.

Miram · 31-35, F

@PiecingBabyFaceTogether what a messed up thing to say! Things don't think stuff through before approaching others. One time at the emergency, heart pumping like crazy, can't breathe or even talk without feeling extreme exhaustion

And this lady comes to me to comment of my sock, one was rolled down and the other up..

Like wtf?

Lot of people are so damn detached. You be dealing with hell and they will want focus on something so superficial ignoring what you're going through. They just want to use anything and anyone to feel like they are better.