Single life....and no, not looking.

So it's weird and daunting being single after 10+ years.
Kids keep me busy and distracted, both welcome btw.
However, and not that I want to anytime soon, how do you start to trust and be with someone again when you've spent so long with someone else who kind of broke you?

Definitely not an easy task, and I reckon the walls will be built even higher if I ever let another love interest into my life again.

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TheGentleGiant · 36-40, M

Your guard is up and that's normal to be cautious and will you ever feel the same way you did when you feel in love last time is most likely the feeling you'll have. But with time and patience there is someone out there thinking the exact same thing you are. It just takes as long as it takes 6 days 6 weeks 6 months 6 years etc.