Single life....and no, not looking.

So it's weird and daunting being single after 10+ years.
Kids keep me busy and distracted, both welcome btw.
However, and not that I want to anytime soon, how do you start to trust and be with someone again when you've spent so long with someone else who kind of broke you?

Definitely not an easy task, and I reckon the walls will be built even higher if I ever let another love interest into my life again.