Single life....and no, not looking.

So it's weird and daunting being single after 10+ years.
Kids keep me busy and distracted, both welcome btw.
However, and not that I want to anytime soon, how do you start to trust and be with someone again when you've spent so long with someone else who kind of broke you?

Definitely not an easy task, and I reckon the walls will be built even higher if I ever let another love interest into my life again.

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TexChik · F

[i][/i]The same way you did the first time , the rules haven’t changed . You are going to be much more cautious because of your kids primarily and because the last one didn’t work out . “Divorcée mother” ! A term that scares a lot of men . The flakes will stay away and if you’ve attracted the right sort he is going to know exactly what the situation is . Friendly conversation and dinner is a great start after you’ve gotten to know them . Being in a hurry is exactly where most relationships go wrong and the good ones understand that . The second time around you don’t [b][i]make[/i][/b] the magic, you [b][i]find[/i][/b] it. 😉