Single life....and no, not looking.

So it's weird and daunting being single after 10+ years.
Kids keep me busy and distracted, both welcome btw.
However, and not that I want to anytime soon, how do you start to trust and be with someone again when you've spent so long with someone else who kind of broke you?

Definitely not an easy task, and I reckon the walls will be built even higher if I ever let another love interest into my life again.

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vorian · 51-55, M

I know how you feel...I came out of an 18 year marriage. I did no dating, no flirting, no nothing for a whole year...worked for me. Only then was i ready with no baggage for a bew relationship.
Take your time...the walls do come down....they dont have to get higher.