Is being a virgin at 35 old fashioned?

Was just wondering if it's outdated and old fashioned of me to still be a virgin at 35? I ain't scared of losing my virginity at all because it's every ladies dream to lose her virginity and transit from a lady to a woman, but I am scared of losing it one man then later get dumped by that man then opt to another man. Because my desire is to lose it to just one man and that one man would be the one to spend eternity with me. Is it possible ?

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Theyitis · 36-40, M

It’s possible but statistically unlikely that the man to whom you lose your virginity will be the man you spend the rest of your life with. For what it’s worth, I don’t see virginity as that big of a deal, and losing your virginity does not in any way decrease your value as a potential romantic partner.