Is being a virgin at 35 old fashioned?

Was just wondering if it's outdated and old fashioned of me to still be a virgin at 35? I ain't scared of losing my virginity at all because it's every ladies dream to lose her virginity and transit from a lady to a woman, but I am scared of losing it one man then later get dumped by that man then opt to another man. Because my desire is to lose it to just one man and that one man would be the one to spend eternity with me. Is it possible ?

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Lanyx · 46-50, M

I am glad that you had the resolve not to give this precious gift to just anyone. Relationships are unpredictable, you never know what the other person is actually thinking and scheming.

PureHeart2087 · 31-35, F

@Lanyx Exactly

Lanyx · 46-50, M

@PureHeart2087 At 45, I stopped bothering with relationships.

PureHeart2087 · 31-35, F

@Lanyx Wow, you must given up and ruled out possibilities of venturing into any relationship I think?

Lanyx · 46-50, M

@PureHeart2087 Other reasons, I hope you don't mind but I sent you a DM.