I'm Afraid That I'll Be Single Forever

I miss having someone I can trust 100% and cuddle up to, but I don't want the in-bed-intimacy stuff. I also need a whole lot of alone time every single day, so moving in together would be problematic.

In addition, I have physical and mental issues that can make me seem very unstable at times, I'm an introvert, not attractive at all, find it hard to trust people in general, I still can't make myself visit friends I've known for 10+ years for some reason (it's the trust thing I guess, aswell as comfort) and then some...

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SW-User

May be you need to just try to bring changes without fear. Give specific people some window and allow them in. You're most likely afraid of getting hurt.

SW-User

@SW-User It's easier said than done, unfortunately :-/

SW-User

@SW-User I know but it's only you can do it. You can place your problems or fear before you and goals/happiness you want beside it and ask yourself which one you want. If you give up on having something suitable, it's only you who are losing something good. Though I know it's hard, especially if we did get hurt before.