I Am Afraid Ill Be Single Forever

I don't know if I am ever not going to be single. I dated once and that was because a mutual friend kinda put it all together for the two of us. Now I am in college, alone, and I am tired of being single. The problem is that I am not outgoing enough to just go meet people. Guess I am just tired of being alone.

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rckt148 · 61-69, M

Impatience will lead to settling ,settling will lead to heartache
heartache leads to bitterness ,to much caution ,a lot deeper loneliness .
It really sucks to be with someone ,and still feel alone .the fits not right .
You have time ,its better to be alone ,then in a relationship that sucks .
Make it your choice ,not your curse ,or you may end up sorry
Never settle no matter how long it takes .
I let Miss right get away ,not wanting to hurt Miss wrong (but she was seeing we were going no where too,she was just trying to hang in there too ,we held each other back ,at least we're friends now or it would have been a total waste .
Miss wrong is a good person ,and thats what's messed me up .
I didn't want to hurt her ,but I knew Miss right was getting away .
It has caused me a lot of pain ,and as I knew all along ,
I knew all along Miss wrong was wrong for me ,I just didn't want to be alone anymore ,I was tired of waiting ,and she made up her mind I was the man for her ,she was wrong .
So I gave in when she kept chasing me ,,the biggest mistake of my life .
Had I just waited a little longer ,I would be with the woman of my dreams
instead of seeing her unhappy too ,with 2 kids ,and she wish's she was with me .
But she was the one with the ultimatum though ,now or never ,
she should have waited a little longer too ,
I just asked for a little more time ,but she was unwilling to wait .
We both are regretting it now .
There is a reason the quote "patience is a virtue " has been around so long .