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Being single is better than asking a man to be a MAN.🦋
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JRVanguard · 26-30, M
I made French toast this morning 😏
Youwereexpectingajoke · 31-35, M
available4 · 70-79, M
its Better to marry a guy you love, then YOU MAKE HIM A MAN
Atari2678 · 41-45, M
Tofulilly · 26-30, FNew
I bring loyalty, love , respect , peace, and genuine commitment . I know relationship takes two and I'm willing to do my part .But i also believe woman shouldn't have to beg a man to show effort , take responsibility or treat her right . Both should bring value to each other's lives .
Atari2678 · 41-45, M
@Tofulilly I agree with that . I suggest looking for a guy that gives you respect first . If not the same outcome will happen .
Atari2678 · 41-45, M
@Tofulilly if you were mistreated I am sorry .
Julien · 36-40, M
What is it being a man to you ?
Better than hoping a woman will have some feminine qualities as well
Rabscuttle · 41-45
If you feel compelled to tell a man to "be a man", then a man isn't what you're looking for. Sadly, that's not uncommon; few women grew up being told what a man is, and few adults of either gender are willing to learn much of anything.

If that's not what you want, it's better to not seek it as a substitute; it wouldn't be fair to him. So yes, it IS likely better for you to be single.
Riverman80 · 46-50
What qualifies you to know what a man is?
Nope...

A man is and always be a man when he needs to be.
No.

But then as a woman, what are YOU brining to the table?
@RaezagorTheDefiler Is she a waitress?
iwishuwerehere · 61-69, M
Maybe you’ve been dating boys instead of men ? You should never have to ask a man to be a man.
Tofulilly · 26-30, FNew
Thank you for saying that 🫶 i appreciate it .Respect should always comes first in a relationship , i believe love alone isn't enough without respect ,honesty, effort , and commitment from both sides and I've learned a lot from my past experiences
Atari2678 · 41-45, M
@Tofulilly it's ok 😊 we learn and it's not easy .
Tofulilly · 26-30, FNew
@Atari2678 thank you 🙏🫶
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
I guess it depends upon what you believe a man should be.
Tofulilly · 26-30, FNew
@Jonjdw well for me a man should be someone whose words match his actions , who takes responsibility, shows respect ,and make his woman feel loved and secure .It's not about money or perfection it's about character , effort and commitment .
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
@Tofulilly yes I totally understand that and that is what I try to be. But I’m not perfect. And men and women are different.
BlueVeins · 26-30
With all the shit i hear about straight dating, maybe.
Tofulilly · 26-30, FNew
@BlueVeins hahah dating nowadays sounds like a headache sometimes 🤣maybe we all just need to find someone genuine who makes love feel simple instead of complicated
If he’s a real man you won’t have to ask him to be one
Youwereexpectingajoke · 31-35, M
I have absolutely no idea.
Sapio · 51-55, M
You shouldn't have to ask.
Not something you should need to ask...

If they need "qualifiers" to do or be what they claim so loudly to be, throw them back and find another that doesn't find doing what you need to be a chore. 🤷🏾

No sense in trying to change someone.

Ps. Guys please spare me the "it goes both ways" nonsense.. it goes without saying.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@DancingStarGoddess
"it goes both ways"

@Degbeme Oh Deggy, lol

 
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