Let's face it singles... When you got nothing, you got nothing to lose.. I mean that is not the...

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Let's face it singles... When you got nothing, you got nothing to lose..

I mean that is not the healthiest attitude to be coming forward and meeting life. But it's true. I wouldn't want to have to face the loss of another partner ever again. At this moment, this day. ...

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SageWanderer · 70-79, M

I have to agree, there are some pains that can’t be relived. There is something to be said for being solitary.

Boeing · 36-40

@SageWanderer but no two experiences are the same in life and so it is not the right way to think...

JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M

I have myself, and I ain't lettin' go! 🤪

Barefooter25 · 46-50, M

I am so sorry you are going through this. Believe me, it's tough. I am going through a difficult relationship right now.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

So sorry for your loss.

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Boeing · 36-40

@samueltyler2 thanks Samuel, no I need no more crying! Haha I need more laughter actually! But I appreciate it thank you ..:) maybe you made me smile

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@Boeing i can send images, that would make you laugh, lol. I tried to pm you once and no answer.

Boeing · 36-40

@samueltyler2 yes I am sorry... I do not do PMs really.. it is very rare. I just don't, I prefer to stay in the public thread and not getting closer, and it works well, I am having enough fun here

EldritchFox

Yeah I'm very much done with feeling the ups and downs. Alone I have stability.

Boeing · 36-40

@EldritchFox Well, with the proper relationship, you would be supporting each other's stability I want to believe

EldritchFox

@Boeing I want to believe too

faery · F

I've always said; for me, the choice is down to feeling partnered up and slightly (or more) annoyed or free as a bird and slightly (or more) lonely, lol. I'm a bird who never feels luckier either way.

Boeing · 36-40

@faery I've been thinking something similar since forever...but nowadays I think that there is such a thing as a right partner.. of course there are moments

faery · F

@Boeing It is entirely possible, I agree. I've seen lifelong couples who adore each other in their very elder years. I think it's probably quite important to be open to it, if one wants it, but also important not to bank all one's happiness on it.

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

I don't even know how it feels. 😅

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Boeing · 36-40

@CrazyMusicLover I mean like dating apps where you actually find people near your area or neighbor city so you can meet them, go on date

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@Boeing Oh, I'm not interested in that and never have been. 😆 I don't have any internal motivation. It's like with many things, I feel no desire until somehow I actually find myself in some situation and see it feels good. But generally, I don't get the concept of dating strangers at all. I'm open to meeting potential friends, not people who are desperate for romance or sex who are primarily driven by these things and go on a date expecting this outcome. That's too much pressure for me.

Boeing · 36-40

@CrazyMusicLover maybe if you copy paste this exact paragraph you wrote here to a dating profile - if all we were able to be more honest .. anyway - yes, I see.. I won't pretend I understand , I have had a very different life. But of course I understand the expectation, how it kills the beauty of the moment , presence, surprise and magic!

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