Assuming you were single, unattached…

Would you be willing to get involved with someone who couldn’t (or didn’t want to) be seen with you in public ? Even if you liked the person, would you consider them worth it ?

I’m acquainted with a person who’s sneaking around with someone. I’m not saying anything to her about it, but I know I couldn’t do it, for a number of reasons. 🙁

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dragonfly46 · F

I think that when you are with someone, and it's a true committed, healthy relationship, you just want to be with that person. No matter what. You crave their companionship. You are so focused on that person, that other things don't compute.

If one party is focused on controlling the meets and greets, there is something wrong with the person or situation. I'd never settle. I know what it's like to be loved, valued and cherished beyond measure. I deserve to be loved and cared for that way.