I Am Single
Why do I suck at flirting and dating and basically getting guys to like me...? My friends are so good at it, and I'm just the ugly undateable cow standing next to them
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BlackTeaBunny · 26-30, F
Just be yourself. Sometimes it's not about pouty lips and having sexy glances; it's a bonus, though. Are you looking for a one-night relationship or a long lasting one?
GokuGirl · 26-30, F
I thought I was being myself 😭😂 and a relationship
GokuGirl · 26-30, F
I don't even know where to meet them!! Like where do girls get hit on cause I never do lol
BlackTeaBunny · 26-30, F
Oh, maybe check out some of the guys at school, bookstore, maybe the park. I wouldn't go to the club because they are just looking for hookups.
GokuGirl · 26-30, F
@BlackTeaBunny: okay then what do I do?
BlackTeaBunny · 26-30, F
I would approach them first because guys are too scared to do that but just be their friends.
GokuGirl · 26-30, F
So like this sounds very step by step but like what would I say? Like hey do you want to be friends? Lol see I suck. I don't understand how these things happen
BlackTeaBunny · 26-30, F
Yeah but it's simple. Lol, I'm the same way too but just say "hi how are you doing?" then just continue from there. Okay what's your personality like?
HeyNow · 46-50, M
@GokuGirl: pick something inconsequential: I always think "Hi, I'm X, nice to meet you" is a bit formal, a bit too telegraphed that from this point forward you are chatting them up. 'Nice sneakers' (for example) on the other hand is off the cuff, but you've made the opening: if he's interested he'll follow that up. If not it's easy to slip away :)